Monday, February 11, 2013

SMACK!!! Looking for an answer......


Sometimes because Madelynn is so far past her surgery, I consider stepping back from the support group for heart families I am part of. Madelynn had one of the less complex heart conditions. With today’s technology and advances most children with her CHD are repaired without open heart surgery. Granted Madelynn had a twist to her CHD and would have still had to have open heart surgery.

The last few weeks I have really been wondering if this is the path I should stay on or do I need to find a new dirt road to explore. When I am truly unsure I will lie in bed and pray about it. I am one of these people who need God to almost smack me in the head and say, “UM……Hello Chelsea…..is this answer PLAIN and OBVIOUS enough for you?”

When I started posting for CHD Week Awareness I thought of things I would write about for each day. Made a few notes about each of these topics and set it aside until it was time to post. I work better this way and sometimes by waiting find a better answer than writing it all in advance. Today several things rang true for me about this process.

For starters I am going to continue to help support families in anyway God presents it to me and sometimes it is in the oddest forms. My “smack on the head” came when a family in Canada found my blog. They are concerned about a family member who might have an undiagnosed CHD. I shared with them about the pulse ox test, a few things we learned after Madelynn’s diagnosis (we should have known before) and told them I would pray for the best outcome.

The best outcome would be for there to be NO CHD. However, it does not sound like that is the case. So I went to work sharing with this family everything I knew and learned that might help them ask better questions and hopefully find the right answers, hopefully without overwhelming them. When I finished typing my response I thought, “Yes God, I asked you to show me the answer and SMACK!! I get it LOUD and CLEAR.”

You just never know who will cross your path I will always be ready to share. Please pray for this baby girl that her family finds the answers they are looking for and they do it soon.

TTFN~

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