Thursday, January 31, 2013

For Justy.....

Over 25 years ago I would be walking into high school to give my very best friend a little something for her birthday. We met the first day of school our freshman year. Our first two classes were the same, our last names both began with B with the alphabetical order seating we were always sitting next two each other. It was always part of God's plan we cross paths.

She helped me get my first job and we worked at the same place for awhile. We went to school dances together, double dated for prom and spent many late nights at Denny's. Some of my favorite memories were the very late night laughs in Denny's. We were college roommates for almost two years. Suddenly everything in life changed.

She joined the Navy and I found myself lost in my life slowly spinning out of control. She found this plan for her life and seemed truly happy with her choices. I worked two full time jobs lived in an apartment and had no idea what I wanted in life. It always made my heart leap when I received a letter or call from across the states or the world.

Last week I turned the same ridiculous age, she turns today. Did I mention our birthdays are a week apart. Something else that always makes me smile.

For many years our friendship lived solely by phone calls. One day I decided that was not enough. She is like my sister. Just like my sister I make the time to see her every year. Some visits were not planned and included lots of tears. However there is no place I would rather be. Some laughter was so much it also brought tears.

If I had my choice I would be sitting with her in her back yard watching our children play and just revelling in the moment that 25+ years has brought us to. Something I was able to do this past November.

To my friend, my hero and confidant......I love you like my sister......My life would not be complete without you.....Thank you for all the memories. I hope as you celebrate your birthday today you know I am with you in spirit and surrounded by love.

Happy Birthday!!! Love, Miss and See you soon.

TTFN~

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